Confronting the Fear of Failure

Many people would rather be odd, hostile or overworked rather than be seen as a failure. With the tremendous stress we place on success, this phenomenon is not surprising. Successful people are winners. People feel sorry for losers and no one wants to be pitied. At the same time, we are constantly bombarded with truisms to cushion the effect of a failure. These are phrases like, ' We learn from our mistakes' or 'You can't win them all, everybody's wrong sometimes'...

This is one of the passages that i have read and it seems attempt to rise my spiritual. It touched my heart. I'm acknowledged it will be a good lesson for me. As i now stand on the diverge roads that i should choose one of it to continue my life after. It seems burdensome for me as i didn't confirm what the road that i must go ahead and am i afford to handle all the incidents that are going to happen around me..

I'm hesitate, scare, afraid, frighten... and think it over and over again... What should i do?

Reading this passage seems give me an injection of encouragement and confident. Really, we need to confront the fear of failure and think positively. Actually, the greatest fear is the fear of not being sure what will happen. So, most of us can learn to accept and deal with the worst if we really know what is coming.

=D..Yeah, for me, i decide to pursue the dream that i possessed before. No wonder what is the difficulties that will defeat me through the road i taken, i strongly believe that i can cope it with my persistent and determination. Go ahead with what i'm going to experience and i will learn more about ' life ' ...

I believe, believe and believe...

Update

im so sorry for a long time din't update, this is because after the matriculation programme..i become more lazy...hehe..also too prosperous being at home..of course, that got numerous interesting events that had happened around me..



now, im staying in my uncle's house in parit raja, johor..the connection here is quite poor..cant online frequently.. but im so happy to live here and get a lots of informations..high-spiritual..

ok=.=, will update soon..